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When I was 3 yrs old I didn't know I can fall down if I run fast, but soon everyone made me realize that falling is also an option, I controlled my speed but it was never the same feeling.
When I grew up and went to school, I started enjoying the ambiance but soon everyone around me made me realize that school is for education.
When I moved ahead and started learning new things and invested more time in thing I loved to do, people made me realize that securing good marks were important.
When I was preparing for my board exams. I was happy that I was able to meet everyone's expectations of marks but only till the time, people around me made me realize that not only marks but getting a rank were also important.
When I got admission in engineering college and I really wanted to play around with things and experiment ( that is what I thought engineering was), I was told that to get a good job you need to clear semesters. Oh I finally realized engineering was all about semesters and Job (Package also matters)
Finally, after joining the company within few days, I realized that this is not the thing which I want to do in my life, BUT everyone around me made me realize that "People are dying outside to work in the same company for the same profile I was working in" and made me feel lucky.
And in this entire process of realization, I had developed an "UNKNOWN FEAR" in my mind. I was living a life, a life full of fear, fear of everything that can go wrong with me. Fear of failing, fear of not being able to meet everyone's expectation, fear of money, fear of job, fear of every fucking thing which I always thought life was all about.
BUT BUT BUT one fine day I realized that if FEAR is something I have to live with and is going to be a part of my life then WHY NOT DO EVERYTHING I WANTED TO DO?
I quit my job and started following my passion. I still have FEAR in my mind, the fear of "How would I feel when my dreams will be fulfilled" and trust me this is the biggest fear I have now.
Are you in LOVE ?
Dare to answer these 3 questions ?
Does Being in relationship give your partner the right to abuse you ? And if he does it repeatedly and if you are still with him, aren't you equally responsible ?
Is physical or verbal abuse a part of Love and something worth compromising for the sake of Love ?
Is love all about restrictions? I have seen lot of couples not comfortable with their partner talking to other people ? Why ?
Don't you trust your partner ?
If you trust then why restrictions ?
If you don't then can love survive without trust ?
Is love about personal choice or fulfilling your duties?
Have come across many love birds
who follow a routine to talk and share things. Every now and then they keep updating their partner about every single thing they are doing. And if either of the partner forgets to share something or didn't call as per daily schedule it leads to huge fight. Why ?
Is love not about having a personal space too, is it not about your wishes too ?
Is love all about a duty you need to follow strictly ?
Love demands freedom
Love demands personal space
Love demands being yourself.
If your partner abuses you and does it too often , it's just because you let him do so. You have your own self esteem and it is above everything else. Don't compromise on that ever for the sake of anyone. Love can never justify any form of abuse.
Relationship shouldn't suffocate you, it should let you be the way you are. You cannot force people to talk to you, be with you all the time. They need their own space too. Sometimes people want to be alone, sometimes they want to go our with their friends too and its absolutely normal. If your freedom is compromised then that relationship is all about rules.
Unless and Until you feel to talk to your partner, the calls make no sense. Love is when you be with your partner out of choice, out of love, out of feeling and not because you feel its your duty.
Remember love is not blind, people are blind see the reality and chose to ignore it.
Are you really in Love ?
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